Since Valentine’s Day is a festival of love, it is a wonderful opportunity for dads to reinforce messages of love and security. While not everyone will have time to make a big production of Valentine’s Day, here are a few ideas that will make the day stand out for you and your kids.
At the very least, don’t forget the flowers for your wife. In addition, if you have a little girl in the house, you had better make sure daddy has something special for her as well, or you’ll be sleeping on the couch, in the dog house.
- During the previous night, fill the children’s room with heart shaped balloons. The local supermarket will have a variety including helium-filled ones, but even inexpensive blow-up balloons will do the trick.
- Wake your kids to the sound of music, preferably some soft, inspiring instrumental music.
- Greet the children with a warm Valentine’s Day hug and a kiss.
- Serve heart-shaped cookies and pancakes for breakfast, or decorate their cereal with a fruit in the shape of a heart.
- Hide a Valentine’s Day special message for each of the children anywhere in the dining room and give a prize to the child who finds his/her message first and then to the child who reads out his/her message best. To take the lesson of love and caring further, you could give a special Valentine’s prize to the child who spontaneously helps a sibling find his/her message.
- If the children are at school during the day, put a valentine in their lunchbox.
- If the children are going to be with you the entire day; take them to a nearby home for the aged or an orphanage and have them give away tiny tokens of friendship and affection.
- Cook a big Valentine’s Day dinner together with the kids or at least prepare one special dish to make the evening memorable.
- End the day with a celebration, which could be a party with the local kids, a family movie, or a dinner with their grandparents.
It seems obvious that everyone sets that standard themselves. Being a great dad isn’t achieving one set of measures, or even ensuring that your child confirms you’re a great dad whenever prompted.